A Wife’s Fuming Reaction: Expected Defeat

Before getting married, my husband Victor and I made an agreement. Because his career is very time and age dependent and my degree does not have time nor age restrictions, we mutually decided that I will not work and be a full-time housewife instead so that I can give our budding family undivided attention and give him 100% support in his profession. When he’s done and decided to retire, it will then be my turn to practice my degree as he gives our family his undivided attention and gives me 100% support in my chosen field of work. I think this decision is quite fair for both of us and our little boy. Well, that is until I became aware of what’s really going on, and what 100% support in his cycling career really means.

Victor placed 5th in the itt. I have mixed emotions about it. A little happy that he still managed to place 5th inspite of being unprepared for the event he never failed to bring home a medal, until now. Sad because I can’t be with my husband to console him. To just hug him and make him feel how much I and our son love him. Rage because the master plan of the scheming habitual liar to destroy my husband is working while pretending his hands are clean and taking credits he never deserved. Strong negative words to the most wicked and manipulative person I have ever known. I bet, coming from me, he will take pride to be described as such. I know he is the happiest person right now. I congratulate him for a job well done in making our lives miserable as he always did. A big thanks for making my husband a stronger and much wiser person through his lowly and appalling acts.

This is never an issue of sour graping. That is so lame. I wish I could just tell it all. But of course I can’t. I don’t have the right. But I really really really hope that this person have all the best in life, more success and blessings that will make him realize his wrong doings and change his disgusting ways and stop pestering other people. Just grow up, live his age, and be nice.

To my husband, you know Buk and I are always by your side no matter what. This is not the end of it all. I know its been really hard for you to keep up with the pressure and expectations. It’s ok to let go even just for a while. It’s ok to let us down but please don’t put yourself down. A single failure won’t erase all your hard work and achievements. Please don’t make this your loss. It’s ok.  This won’t define you as a person. Always take care of yourself. Your safety is the most improtant for me and Buk. We will be waiting.